When I was in my teens, I thought my father didnt know much nor did he know what I was going through.
Then I hit my young adult life and I realised that my father had grown up a lot within the last 10 years. He seemed so much wiser.
Little did I know that it was I who had grown up to realise the wisdom in all of my father’s advices during the years when I was growing up.
My father no longer gives me advices these days.
He has passed away.
Now I sit in silence and wonder what he would have said to me if I had approached him with the problem that I am facing now.
I can only make him proud by doing the things that I know he will be proud off — like not being late for appointment, always giving the other person the benefit of the doubt, slow to anger but rich in mercy, build relationships by spending time with others,…
I miss you acha.